Truth About Haitian Men and Relationships Hello my name is Ruth and I felt that it is necessary for me to write about my personal experience with being in a relationship with Haitian men I'm not here to bash anyone or put my culture down as I am Haitian American born here in the United States. Both of my parents are from Haiti of course, but one of the issues I'm here to talk about are Haitian relationships.
I am going to list a group of things that most Haitian men do that most Haitian women can't stand. They sit around and talk about their past and present relationships or how many women they've slept with. His first approach to women would be more like "Hey baby let me talk to you for a minute, I wanted to tell you that your very beautiful ". Sometimes I find my self saying "Not Interested" over 2 or 3 times. At this point I become very irritated and walk on and go about another route because they do have a tendency to follow you.
By the time you've been in a relationship with him for about 6 month to a year you'll start to notice change in the relationship. The most common case is because he already had another relationship going on before you came into the picture.
Or possibly started another relationship or should I say "relationships". I find this to be common in most relationship when there is another person involved. After engaging in his personal outings no need to open a new case because at this time he'll be heading straight to bed. But family outing is out of the question. Before you can get a Haitian guy to finally commit to having some family time. Like seriously that's really uncalled for 9 Financially if he has the money he probably will help around with some of the household expenses but of course his up bringing and education level is an important factor.
On the other hand you have the young cocky guy who probably spends more money on him self to keep up with the ladies for show off. When your angry at them because your starting to discover the fact of who they really are.
They get even angrier at you for finding out. They'll tell you that your crazy and that it's all in your head. I personally feel that things could be better if we start educating our sons to respect women rather than just using them as an object with no feelings.
In my case I threw in the towel because I got tired, and also traumatized by my past relationship. I'm personally done and have no desire to go back to the same displeasing relationship. Please feel free to leave a comment or opinions for others to read.
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