September 29, at 3: In talking the situation over with friends, parents, etc. JW October 4, at 4: Are there rules to your break? My GF wanted a break and took my by complete shock. He is under a lot of stress and I feel like its my fault because I pushed him over the edge. I want him to come back to me. He pretty much died along with her and was replaced by anger, guilt, resentment all of which built up until last week. I love him and he is my sould mate. I am hoping this is a break to help us grow without rubbing each other raw which is what has been happening since we moved into our new apartment in may.
I dont have a job and havent had any luck finding one which is one of our problems. He is paying for everything and its taking its toll. He says since his mom died we havent been moving forward with life and that this was what we need to do. We have actually been talking to each other again and he seems to not want to let go even though this is his idea. Is this a good break or not? This is difficult for us both, but i dont mind doing it because the girls are innocent in all of this and he is a great dad so i want him to have a good relationship with them.
The problem that i have is that his ex still wont back off. I know she doesnt want him back, she is evil towards him, leaving him voicemails telling him how awful and useless he is, when they were married she destroyed his self esteem completely which is why he left because he couldnt take the arguements and abuse anymore.
Sarah April 14, at I feel lost without him and am really scared that he will decide that I am not what he wants. Any advice on how I should read this would help? Nikkola May 15, at I love him and there is no going back. So why do I feel a break will help?
It seems I had it all figured out 19 bought a new car, was saving for a house everything was scheduled, routined health and fitness, I felt great. And Im begging to resent my partner, for my own selfish reasons.
Elizabeth May 17, at 4: We have been together for nearly 4 years. We have had our ups and downs, emotional breakdowns and so on. My point is that you go through the whole process from a relationship and love grows. Having 2 kids to him was a beautyful blessing. I have two girls that they are so handful. Getting married to him at a young age and pregnant at the same time. To be honest it was really a one stand that turned out to be a relationship that we actually said our vowels.
I love this man with all my heart and soul. He came around the day after mothers day I know its stupid but he used the excuse if the girls had any stuff so that he could come over.
I was happy to see and he was to and yes it was very emotional the night he came by. Markus June 29, at 3: It has me worried because I think this break stuff just leads to break up. I have no idea why we have been arguing lately, we usually never do. I have no idea what to do. Mikyla July 29, at 3: I never new this existed.
I never met up with them, but we did talk sexually online. I get it I fucked up, I instantly regret it now. I never want to hurt her like that again.