Energy is extremely important. Most guys want a woman to be successful in her own right, and have her own things happening apart from him. Particularly if the guy is very ambitious, he wants to find a compatible counterpart who can keep up with him and and have someone to bounce ideas off of. Also, how into SnapChat she is and other social platforms platforms plays a role as well. And of course, how often she feels the need to text in front of you as well. Not only does a guy want a girl who is clean and smells nice, but a girl who also puts in effort to take good care of herself.
No guy wants to be with a slob! A guy wants a girl who shaves her legs, brushes her hair, exercises and eats well, showers on a regular basis, wears deodorant and perfume and smells nice, and ultimately, a girl who takes pride in her appearance, and not just for her partner, but also for herself. One weird smell in those early stages of intimacy and you can turn someone away very quickly.
This is something that goes without saying, but a guy wants his girl to be hygienic and take care of herself in all aspects. Someone who is super proactive and takes control of their life is a big turn on. Laziness could be applied to many things — not ever working out or exercising is one aspect, but also someone who just never wants to get outside and do anything. A guy wants to date someone who is motivated in life and has a ton of drive to make big things happen for herself.
Those who are humble, hard working, and extremely down to earth and genuine are the best types of girls to be around. Entitlement — even if there is actual justification for her to potentially be a little entitled — is the most unattractive quality in a woman. This type of behaviour takes place when she is constantly complaining about the things that drive her crazy about you, rather than choosing to focus on the things you do well.
A guy wants to feel like he has the space and support within the relationship to act completely himself — and feel safe and secure — that he will be loved just for that. Too much makeup also bleeds into the high-maintenance thing and makes a girl come across as more high-maintenance, and less as someone who would be easy going and drama free.
There is nothing worse than a girl who is negative, spiteful, and trash talks other girls. You go to pay the bill and the girl just sits there and lets you pay without at least offering to split it. She can then reciprocate by paying for something smaller the next time, like a coffee or tea.
Furthermore, it shows the girl potentially grew up getting everything handed to her and was treated like a little princess at the center of the universe. Let me tell you: At least for a couple dates or a couple weeks! By making him wait just a little bit, you assert value to yourself and the connection, while allowing some sort of foundation and connection to be established before you take your clothes off. Women control the physical nature of the relationship: A woman who is strong in her own right, has her own established life, career, and group of friends, and simply views her relationship as an add-on bonus to her life, is the type of woman that men are attracted to.
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