Tired of the same old small talk questions? You can pick and choose the ones you like or you can just ask them all. I added a bit of commentary about how to use each question and some possible ways to take the conversation.
You can read through the commentary or just skip it. Enjoy the great conversation, you can thank me later! Questions to ask a girl list This first list of questions to ask a girl is a great place to start. Each question has some commentary that might help with the questions but feel free to ignore the commentary if you want.
What random stranger has had the biggest impact on your life? But it can be a lot of fun to answer and can be quite thought provoking as well. What achievement are you proud of but most people would consider silly or weird? What period in history had the best fashion?
Not all girls are into fashion, but a fair number of them are. To expand the conversation, you might want to ask about if different time periods were better for different genders.
What silly or funny thing makes you afraid or creeps you out? You can talk about why the thing creeps her out and if she has any funny stories about the thing she is afraid of. You could also move the topic into more serious fears if you wanted to get a bit deeper. But feel free to keep it light and talk about humorous fears. How quickly do you jump to conclusions about people? This one is a great question to find out more about how she views other people and what stereotypes she has.
To further the conversation, you can ask her about what she thought of you the first time she saw or met you. How would the world change if super heroes and super villains actually existed?
What would be your strategy for surviving an apocalyptic epidemic? Especially with how popular post apocalyptic shows, movies, and books are. This one is an easy one to expand into a long conversation, because you can discuss the merits of each strategy compared with each scenario.
I mean, there have literally been books written about this. So yeah, lots to talk about. Especially if you two are into the post apocalyptic genre.
This one is a bit more serious. But you can see how much she is into social change and probably get a good idea of her political leanings. You can easily expand this question by bouncing different ideas off of each other and talking about the merits of each idea.
What is something you think you will regret in the future not starting now and what is something you already regret not starting sooner? Yep, we all do it. This will let you know how much she procrastinates as well as letting you know about what some of her goals are and what she finds important. What part of your culture are you most and least proud of? Our culture makes up a large part of who we are and she is no different. So dive in on cultural matters and see where you both have similar viewpoints and where you differ.
There will be lots of chances for follow up questions. A great question that she is sure to have plenty to say about. But the good stuff about being a woman is great to ask questions about.
If you could put your brain in a robot and live indefinitely, would you? A couple of large philosophical questions wrapped up in a fun hypothetical question. You could talk about what makes a human a human. Or you could chat about the merits and drawbacks of living indefinitely.
If you could replace the handshake as a greeting, what interesting new greeting would you replace it with? This is a rather silly question, but it can be a lot of fun. Try out secret hand shakes or high fives with elbows, you are only limited by your creativity. This is usually good for a funny story.
Encourage lots of details and ask lots of questions. When does time pass fastest for you and when does it pass the slowest? What does she enjoy and what bores her? For follow up questions you can ask about more examples or you can prompt her with activities to see which ones she finds tedious and which ones make time fly by. What always sounds like a good idea at the time but rarely is?
And I can almost guarantee there are some good stories about bad decisions to be had from both of you. See what you can come up with and see who has the craziest stories.
Are humans fundamentally different than animals? If so, what makes us different? Whoa, what is this serious question doing here?
Yep, be prepared for a conversation filled with landmines like religion and other strongly held beliefs.
This question is not one to be busted out lightly, so pick the right time or just skip it. What pictures or paintings have had a big impact on you? But I can almost guarantee that examples will leap to her mind when you ask her the question. What movie or book character are you most similar to? If nothing else, this question will tell you how she views herself or who she wants to be more like. Always good to know, and a lot fun think about as well.
There is a reason those quizzes are so popular on social media. You could split the question into two parts, which character do you wish you could be more like and which do you think you are actually like.
Or move the conversation into what books and movies she is into. You could also talk about which characters are the most interesting or unique. What sentence do you say? A question that just begs for creativity. You can think of a lot of sentences that would have a lot of effects.
However she wants to answer the question, remember to always ask why and find out more. Think of some more examples and try to think of what sentence would have the most impact or have the funniest outcome. Just remember to talk about each fact and not just fire off facts rapid fire. What are you completely over and done with? She might talk about a current fad or fashion, she might talk about a friend, really it could be anything.
But whatever she chooses to talk about, we all love talking about things that annoy us and she will too! What memory do you just keep going back to? Perfect for getting to know a little bit more about her. Just a heads up though, this one can get real serious in a hurry depending on what memory she decides to share. Sometimes those things are silly and fun, sometimes they are more selfish or hurtful. What are you most passionate about and what do you wish you were more passionate about?
I love this question because it gets to the heart of who a person is or at least how they see themselves. You can see what actually interests her versus what person she wishes she could be. This one might even give you a glimpse into the direction she wants to take her life in. A really fun and often funny question. Chances are she has a pretty good story about an amazing comeback.
Plus, you can tell any comeback stories you know. Another question that delves a little into the past. Perfect for getting to know her a little better. Get ready for a little reminiscing. Where is the last place you would ever go? You can get pretty creative with it or you can answer it literally. Sharing faults and shortcomings can be a great way for two people to become closer.
Who is the humblest person you know? Kind of a random question but it might give you some insight into the people she chooses to surround herself with or the people she looks up to. Another one of those questions for pulling out a good story. Great for a laugh and for getting a conversation going. What is quite possibly the most annoying thing ever?