Ultimately, I decided that was ridiculous. Okay, back to the main topic, meeting someone online bukan lagi something yang pelik these days. It is now the largest single way in which relationships start. Probably because orang zaman sekarang banyak habiskan masa with the internet. But one thing i cannot deny about meeting all these people online, it was fun. For those who really need it, enjoy! Choose your website or apps wisely.
Setiap dating website dan app adalah menjadi tarikan golongan tertentu. Tinder — to make this account you kena connect with facebook. Technically, you can easily find this person on facebook dan users adalah yang tinggal berhampiran dengan you ataupun dari jarak yang you telah tetapkan.
Okcupid — One of the most popular dating website. You boleh jumpa banyak orang yang bekerjaya in here. Kebanyakannya berumur in their late 30s dan ke atas. All dating website dan app ada fake account. Make sure you tahu nak bezakan. You boleh cuba semua website and app. But, lagi senang if you dah tahu which website dan app yang sesuai untuk you. Jadi masa you tak banyak terbuang. Setting up your profile. Create Username yang menarik perhatian.
Profile photo should me more natural. Jangan guna photo yang bukan nampak macam you. Maksud i, jangan guna photo yang you edit melampau. Then, upload photos untuk profile album. Tak perlu banyak-banyak dan make sure bukan semua photo adalah selfies. Write something interesting about you but not too much. Avoid sharing personal information.
Do not share your First Name and Last name. Do not share where you live your address. Do not share about your workplace. Do not share anything personal about you. Look into the background of people you meet. Find his facebook, instagram, or any other social media that connected to his name or username. Look carefully at their social media page. Tengok kalau ada mutual friends. Then, tengok with who he surround himself with and how his interactions with others. You can usually tell who they are by their social media.
Send messages to people you like instead of only responding. If you see a profile you like, by all means send him a message. It is OK to make the first move. Try messages with open-ended questions or engaging comments on his or her profile. If dia interested, dia akan reply. Even kalau dia reply but he seems uninterested, at least you tried.
Keep your emotions in check. Keep conversations focused on common outside interests, such as music or movies, and avoid talking too much about your own life or your thoughts and feelings.
Remember, you met him online. Mungkin apa yang dia share adalah fake. Jangan sesekali be in a relationship with him selagi tak jumpa in person or at least video call.
One thing about meeting someone online, you will get bored. Unless that person is interesting. Exchange phone number and talk on the phone. Bila you rasa rasa confident about him, you can always trade phone numbers atau exhange emails first, then talk on the phone and finally video chat, all before the meeting. Do one or more of these steps, whatever makes you feel comfortable and safe. Meet In A Public Area.
No matter how much you have chatted with your potential date, you are still meeting a stranger from the Internet and need to make safety a priority. You choose the place to meet. Tapi dalam masa yang sama, if you risau dia akan tahu mana you tinggal, jangan jumpa di tempat yang terlalu dekat dengan rumah you atau tempat kerja you.
Jumpa pada waktu siang. You tell him where to meet. Rely on your own transportation as much as possible. Always take personal belongings with you. Contohnya kalau nak pergi restroom, jangan tinggal your purse or handphone with him or atas meja. Let a close friend or family member know you are meeting and where you will be. Mungkin orang yang you nak jumpa tak seperti apa yang you sangka.
If you feel that you need to leave, just do it. Mana pun tempat you pilih, you need to plan your escape route. Jadi if anything happens, you can leave the place quickly.