And he has a lot of experience coaching — not to mention dating! Check it … The majority of my clients are single moms. Single moms are indeed stigmatized in some dating circles. Here is the secret that most single moms miss: Men closely relate their success and egos to whether they can win over a quality woman. A single mom knows first-hand what responsibility is.
A single mom is patient, open-minded, trustworthy, loyal, and selfless. She wants to better herself and others around her. A single mom has meaning to her life.
These are all qualities great guys are looking for. After all, what is more truly feminine that a mother? I understand that it can be easy to buy into those single mom stigmas. Look at yourself and your life through the eyes of the type of man you desire. Appreciate how strong, loving and capable you are. Be proud of your single motherhood. But you have to OWN it first! Most single moms I know have their acts together. To a man who also has a great life, this is catnip.
A successful single mom shows a man that his life, freedom and social status are not threatened. Focus on the right guy. I often see successful single moms going after the wrong guys.
These might be men who are not their professional or social peers — men who will indeed be threatened by her success. This guy is in a different stage in his life than you. This might mean you date single dads, or men who have been involved with single moms before. Let him take care of you. When a woman starts to focus on pleasing the man, opposed to accepting his care, she ruins the natural mating cycle. As long as he satisfies you and you let him know through gratitude, he will continue to help and love you.
Over-pleasing is a sign of seeking validation. When you have the confidence to allow a man to take care of you, he feels masculine, secure, and devoted to you. With confidence, you already own everything you need to attract a quality man.
Confidence is a choice in the moment. Just know that you have it covered. The only life worth living is a life full of action! If a single mother has the qualities of a single mom as well as the confidence to own it, she is in a league of her own. If you want to learn more about his work and learn how to attract the perfect guy, check out his free page ebook here.