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Get started for free and instantly start meeting hot members near you - no credit card, no commitment. Everyone does it; everyone loves it. And if you say that you don't know sext then you're a liar, sir! Sexting existed even before phones!
As soon as pagers were invented, dirty messages were flying back and forth between horny professionals. But how does one master sexting? There are definitely some unspoken rules surrounding sexting that are often broken. But fear not fellow horn-dog! I'm here to break the silence on the rules and etiquette surrounding sexting.
I've been sending dirty sexts since I got my hands on my first cell phone: If you've ever wondered why you're not getting responses or why people block your number, I'll help you get out of that sexting-rut. Here's the ultimate guide to sending absolutely salacious sexts.
Read on to discover the 4 W's of Sexting! WHY you should sext It's healthy Contrary to what your high school teachers probably told you, sexting is a healthy way to express your sexuality… so long as you're of age! Technology has completely saturated our society, including our sex lives. And why should we push back against that? I'm all for spending less time with screens, but when it comes to sexuality and technology, I don't see why we shouldn't use our screens to our advantage.
I'm of the opinion that expressing your sexuality in any way — as long as you're not hurting yourself or others — is a positive thing! So when it comes to sexting, I say go for it! It's a great way to stay connected to your partner, get some sexual tension going early in the day before you see your lover, or release some tension all together. Sex and technology naturally intersect, so I say exploit that!
It's not healthy to keep your feelings bottled up; the same thing goes for sexual energy. It's unhealthy to keep from pleasing yourself, and it's unhealthy to go without expressing your sexual feelings for other consenting adults. So don't feel like you're committing some dirty technological sin when you're sexting. As long as your sexting responsibly more on that later , you should keep on sexting! It'll save your long distance relationship Long distance is a total bitch. Whether you've just moved away from your partner or have decided to commit to a long distance relationship, sexting should become a staple in your relationship.
Intimacy is extremely important for maintaining a connection. And while you can't be together physically, you can get some digital intimacy via sexting until you can actually see one another in person. For a lot of people, long distance is a deal breaker. It's hard being away from someone both emotionally and physically. Whether we want to admit it or not, we need sex. Our bodies crave sex. I don't care how enlightened you think yourself to be; you need to bone every once in a while!
Going without sex with your partner is one of the biggest reasons why long distance relationships fail. People grow sad and restless without having sex with their lover who sometimes leads to cheating… which usually leads to break ups. Why shouldn't you use technology to try to get as close to sex as you can with your partner? Technology makes the world feel smaller. So distance will feel a little less painful if you sext. There are also plenty of masturbatory implements that you connect via Bluetooth to help you and your partner feel even closer!
Vibrators like these We-Vibes connect wirelessly and vibrate at similar speeds, so you can feel like your masturbating together while you're apart! The magic of technology, am I right? Before there was the internet and long before phones or pagers were a thing, people were still trying to sext via letters.
Yes, I shit you not… sexting predates phones. There have been plenty of salacious letters found by historians that contain lude language, and bodily fluid spewed onto the pages…, so humans have always been looking for ways to get off!
It's not anything new to want to get it on even when you're not physically with someone. When it comes down to it, we're animals. So, of course, we want to have sex. And since we're intelligent animals, we're going to use anything at our disposal to have sex. Any new technology is usually immediately adopted by the world of porn and sex. Think about it; it didn't take very long for VR technology to be immediately adopted by porn.
Who needs immersive video games when you can have immersive porn? Technology and sex go hand-in-hand. However, people love to whine about nothing is sacred anymore. Gen-X specifically, loves to bitch about how kids never go outside anymore or how nothing is pure because technology has "invaded" every part of our life. I say, who cares!? Technology is allowing people to connect on different levels that weren't possible before.
Most relationships start online, so why shouldn't our hook ups be digital too? Sexting is convenient, fun, and there's no chance of STD's just make sure your computer or doesn't get a virus and don't click on any suspicious links, haha. WHO you should sext Your significant other Obviously, you should sext your partner!
Even if you're not in a long distance relationship, sometimes being in separate places in town is long distance enough. Or if they go on a trip, you should definitely remind them what's waiting for them when they get back! Sexting your partner is a great way of staying connected during busy weeks or to build sexual tension before getting home in the evening. Before a date night or a romp in the sheets, you should set the tone for the night early in the day with a few sexy texts.
You can decide how intense you want to get depending on how coy or slutty you want to come across. If you're trying to play innocent, send a few slightly suggestive texts and play like you have no idea what you're doing. On the other hand, if you're looking to get nasty later, you should set the slutty tone earlier by telling your partner exactly what you're going to do to them later.
Regardless of how far apart you are, sexting is something that will keep your relationship flirty and sexy as you tack months — even years — on to your relationship. Use your phone to your advantage. Instead of scrolling mindlessly down Instagram, send your lover a cheeky text and see how excited they are to see you later! Plus, if you're bored with your sex life sexting can open some doors! Tell your lover about your fantasies while they're out and about. Come up with sexy scenarios to act out later when you're together.
It can be easier to talk about your fantasies over text if you're shy! Other people who've made it clear that they want sexts from you Okay, so I know I've talked a lot about sexting and relationships… but let's be real, the majority of sexting probably happens between single people!
Sure, you might think think that girl was flirting with you or you thought that scandalous subtweet was directed at you, but you could be very wrong! And there is nothing worse than sexting someone who doesn't want to be sexted by you.
You end up embarrassed, and they end up feeling uncomfortable or violated at the very worse. You have to make sure that you're sexting a willing participant or you could end up blocked and reported.
So, make sure that the girl that you've been flirting with has been actually flirting back. Make sure that girl who slid in your DM's doesn't just want to be friends. Do this by straight up asking or by testing the waters with slightly sexy texts. If she responds with something equally or more salacious, then you're in the clear! If not, then apologize and find a new person to text. It's not hard to find people on the internet who are willing to text over apps like Kik or instant messager.
You just need to find the right message boards. Just be careful, because the internet is swarming with catfish. The last thing you want is to find that the babe you've been sexting is a year-old man. And do yourself a favor and don't be the catfish. That's some seriously bad karma, and the last thing you want is Nev and Max knocking on your door.
WHAT you should send Sexy texts… duh Sext is literally short for sexy text… so obviously you should be sending texts containing dirty words. Here's where a lot of people go wrong though: If you're looking to lay on your back and read something dirty without having to respond, you should be reading 50 Shades.
Seriously though, it's not fair for your partner to be writing you a dirty novel in real time, while you say nothing in response.
That's just poor manners!