Marisa Tesoro April 28, at 7: Better than nothing, right? Now the ball is in your court to decide just what to say to him the next day. How can you do it?! Geoffrey Greif, author of Buddy System: Understanding Male Friendships, provides some insight. I just wanted to say that I had a great time with you last night!
I just heard song you talked about last night on the radio! You got his name, but no number Your friend got sick and you had to take her home, or his ride showed up sooner than anticipated and was threatening to drive away without him. In either case, you were left with a reason to contact him… but no way to do so.
Yes, you want to be pursued, and you will be… after you drop a few hints. It was great meeting you last night! If nothing else happens between you two, you had a fun couple hours together, and it was still great to meet him. I had a great time hanging with you. You never got to finish your story about funny thing you were talking about the night before, e. You had a good night, but trying to contact him now would just be futile.
While this may take a little more elbow grease, if you really hit it off, it can be done in two simple steps: Ask a friend for his number Enlist the help of one of your friends. She saw you two flirting it up , and she lived on his floor last year in the dorms. She has his number. Lauren, a junior at the University of Kansas, was the go-between friend in this situation. It seems lame, but, hey, it worked! He totally texted her back. I got your number from Carly. Are you the guy I met last night who really liked The Fray?
I got your number from Rachel. At the party last night, we talked about the best places to get Thai food. Where did you say was your favorite place in current location to get Thai? And there he was. What are you waiting for?! The worst thing that could happen would be for him to simply ignore your request. So request that friendship! Just keep it honest, Greif says. Hitting it off with a guy at a party is just the beginning.