June 30th, by Nick Notas 1 Comments Sometimes, we draw inspiration and understanding from the least expected places. A gorgeous brunette in particular caught my eye many times over, and to this day is still one of the most attractive women I have ever seen in person. Besides her dazzling looks, this woman had a wonderful personality, too. She was polite, always in a good mood, and loved to be social.
Only guys like that could land a girl like her. What is going on? How is this even possible? After they left, I went to my dad to try and get some clarification. He told me they had been married for 7 years and she was head over heels for him. She had everything and could get any man in the entire world…why him? What mattered to her is how he made her feel, and he made her glow more than any other man could.
He was passionate, exciting, respectful, confident with himself , and knew how to stir her emotions in all the right ways. After years together, she was more attracted and connected to him than even most newlyweds. There is no rulebook to tell our emotions what to do. Want romantic success in your life? Be the man who makes her happiest. Make her feel incredible, sexy, fulfilled, and excited to share her time with you. Be someone she trusts and can count on. Dance and flirt with her in the middle of a sub shop if you have to!
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I had a very similar experience when I was in college. As a business major I needed to take an art elective and I chose pottery. I would say he was probably 50, He was really kind of funny looking. He was short, balding and the hair he did have was kind of long and stringy. One eye was a bit bigger and lower than the other and the rest of him looked sort of miss-matched. Then I noticed that he was making the most amazing things on the wheel, skillfully creating these paper thin little vases and cups, one right after another.
I went over and started up a conversation. It turned out that he had studied pottery in Japan and had really interesting stories from all over the world. But the thing that struck me most was just how warm and open-hearted he was.
The guy was kind, funny and passionate about everything. Just talking to him made you happy. Toward the end of the class one of the most gorgeous women I have ever seen walked into the classroom. She was easily six feet tall, blond, blued eyed, smiling and bouncing a baby on her hip. When she announced that she was looking for husband I was sure she was lost. But then she spotted the funny looking guy and went over and kissed him.
He cleaned up and, they all left together.