Body image Black women are known to be naturally curvaceous. We are praised for our assests by the black men who love us. It has been known that the bigger the backside the better.
The rounder the breast the better. The thicker the legs the more beautiful. In the white community this has been the complete opposite. The bigger the butt, the less attractive. Thinner is usually all around better within the white community. Many studies show that black men prefer woman with curves and white men prefer women who are thin. After speaking to 6 black women between the ages of most state that they believe a white man would not be attracted to them because of their voluptuous bodies.
Hair Black women have been ridiculed for their hair for many many years. Sure most black men hate weaves but the women I surveyed expressed how a black man would understand more because he was raised by a black woman.
Because of this, a black man knows all the changes his mother may have went through maintaining her hair. He is no stranger to fake hair or a pressing comb. A white man on the other hand is used to naturally unenhanced straight hair that he gets to run his fingers through.
The women I surveyed said they were naturally intimidated when it came to dating a white man because of their hair.
In the black community, we naturally have to work twice as hard and be 3 times smarter to achieve the level of success deemed to be successful. White men that are very successful will usually date a woman who is as successful or at least in the same class as himself. At least then he feels as if he has something in common with her. They are never approached by white men We as black women are constantly criticized for being the ones not open to dating outside of our race but what happens if white men just do not approach us?
When I surveyed these women, 4 out of the 6 said they were never even approached by a white guy. Unfortunately black women have the smallest pool to choose from. We are naturally attracted to black men but the majority of black men now and days marry outside of their race. The percentage of white men and black women that date is a very low one.
Just not attracted to white men We are also guilty of just not feeling it. They felt as if they lacked good looks that they were used to, as well as confidence swag and sex appeal. Because of this it was hard for most of them to really become serious about potentially being able to have a serious relationship with a white man.
As you see there are many reasons that stop black women from dating white men. Unfortunately many of the reasons stem from insecurity. Insecurity stems from fear and fear can stop you from attaining your blessings. At the same time, we are beautiful creatures who deserve the very best. We should also be able to get exactly what we want. If that happens to be a strong, successful black man, so be it. The sky should be the limit for us.
If we truly believe we can and do deserve the very best, that is what will come to us. But it is also important to be open to anything life may have to offer.
Life is about taking chances and enjoying whatever challenges and changes may come our way. Love can come in all shades and sizes. She was also the lead singer of the girl group Isyss. She has a great passion to inspire women all over the world to love themselves and to stay strong and true to themselves in love and in life.
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