First date I had from OKCupid, he was such a charmer, we chatted well over 3. We arranged a second date three days later. At the end of the first date when outside saying byes it was obvious we did click and again he leaned in for a peck on the cheek and also did a brush on the lips. Before I was even home which was 15min walk there was a text saying he had a great time. I texted back the same. Said I look forward to seeing him Wednesday.
It was a movie date On the movie date, I did make an effort, dress up abit. I arrived early, texted him to say I will pick up the tickets, When he arrived I was slightly disappointed with his lack of effort, plus he arrived proper last minute.
We had a quick drink abit rushed before the movie and had a good time. Had another drink and chat after the movie, by the time I was home he had texted saying, "you looked sexy, I had a good time".
We agreed on another date again 3 days later. Between that time I tried the minimal texts as I started to notice his were less forth coming. Come the day of the date it was a weekend and he texts 1hr before we are meant to meet that, "I have not been feeling well, I am throwing up so can't make it". At first I was concerned so I called to see if he needed any help his family is not nearby the call ends with him pretending to cough and throwing up and telling me he will call "sometime early next week": I since step back from initaiting contacting.
Then he does again apologising and asking to arrange another date.. I stop the contact and just ignore his last message. A day later he texts apologising and requests we arrange a date over the weekend as his work is unpredictable, I try to give the benefit of the doubt and agree again. Again 30min before he is due he cancels with text and requests that we have lunch the next day. At this point I feel like my feelings have been trumpled on like dirt and my confidence has been knocked down. What irks me even more about this, someone else had asked me to go for a date at the similar time and I had said I couldn't because I thought this dude was going to come.
Also the fact that the date had been arranged for I finally got the guts to text him and simply say, " delete my number". I didn't want to even show him the slightliest of emotion of what he had done. I was always honest with him I don't really understand why he kept on doing what he did cancel proper last minute then apologies and then pretends to arrange another date only to cancel again.